If you’re new to long-distance relationships or have been in one for a while, these 17 long distance relationship question games will be your new favorite part of the day. 

Have you ever asked yourself, I don’t know what else to talk about with my long-distance partner? If your answer is yes, then keep reading.

Being in LDR requires very strong emotional strength, even if you’re new to LDR, it can take a huge toll on you at the beginning.

It’s important in the beginning to have an open mind to try everything to make it easier for you during that time.

In my LDR, I have tried everything through the years, and it kept us strong.

Some of those questions games we tried already, and some I wished I had known about when we wanted to kick things a bit.

They will strengthen your relationship, and they’ll help you get to know your partner in so many ways.

Not only that, but they’re so much fun to try.

So make sure to keep this post handy whenever you need more ideas to spice things up with your LDR partner.

Let’s get started. 

What questions can I ask in a long-distance relationship?

At the beginning of a long-distance relationship, you try to get to know your partner on many levels.

Sometimes asking the right questions helps to do just that. 

Types of Questions to Ask in a Long-Distance Relationship 

When it comes to the types of questions to ask your partner in a long-distance relationship, anything is on the table. 

It can be from personality questions (We will get to that later), to playing questions games. 

In any case, it should be fun for both of you to get to know each other, and make sure not to turn it into interview questions.

READ MORE: 13 Beyond Video Call First Date Ideas for Long-Distance Couples 

Long distance relationship question games

In this part of the post, I’ll talk about questions games you can try in your LDR, they range from normal questions to fun games that will deepen your connection together. 

1- Pick a theme 

This is about picking which types of questions you would like to ask, whether that’s life questions, personality questions, or even kinky questions. 

I suggest at the beginning to keep it light and share what you care to know about the person.

Whether that’s about their plans or their current favorite things to do daily.  

2- Personality

This type of question game to ask in a long-distance relationship is fun if you know what to ask.

And if you don’t, that’s okay. 

Different types of personality questions can be more on the surface type of questions, like: 

What is the most memorable gift you’ve ever received?

Or, How do you handle stress or difficult situations?

The other type of questions are slightly deep, but it helps to know what kind of personality your partner has, whether that’s they have a bad temper or they are more of an introverted person.

READ MORE: 17 Creative birthday ideas for long distance relationship

image of man behind a mirror hiding his true personlity

They sound like: 

  • What is something you’ve always wanted to learn or try?
  • What is something you want to overcome or improve in yourself?
  • What is something you want to overcome or improve in yourself?
  • What makes you tick? What are the matters in lifestyles that sincerely light you up and make you feel alive?
  • How do you like to keep in contact while we are away? Are you a texter, a caller, or a video chat enthusiast?
  • Got any massive desires or exciting plans for the future? Share your aspirations with me!
  • When life throws you a curveball, how do you commonly deal with it? Any mystery pressure-busting guidelines you could provide?
  • Tell me approximately your favorite pastime or hobby. What’s the tale in the back of it?
  • Any films, books, or suggestions you’ve currently fallen in love with? What about them stuck your interest?
  • Picture our ideal dating. What do you notice? What are the things that remember most to you in a partnership?
  • Are there any quirky or funny tales out of your past that you’d want to percentage? Let’s change some life anecdotes!
  • What’s your satisfied place? What little things in life by no means fail to place a grin on your face?

READ MORE: 100 Deep Questions to Ask Your Boyfriend or Girlfriend

3- Hobbies

This one maybe you have already asked but if you haven’t yet or think it’s a kinda lame question think about it again. 

Knowing your partner’s hobby and what they’re interested in doesn’t only mean you care about their interests, but it helps to find everyday things to talk about or try together for when you meet. 

image of color painting as part of hobby: this image is used to illustrate hobby of your partner

Here is a fun way to ask hobby questions:

  • What’s your favorite way to unwind and have fun when you’re not busy with work or other responsibilities?
  • If you had a free weekend with no plans, what’s the hobby or activity you’d jump into without hesitation?
  • Tell me, what’s that one thing you could talk about for hours because you’re so passionate about it?
  • Are there any hobbies or interests that you’ve always wanted to try but haven’t had the chance to yet?
  • When you’re not adulting, what’s your go-to way to let loose and have a good time?
  • Imagine we’re planning a spontaneous day together. What activity would make you super excited?
  • Is there a hobby or interest that you’ve been secretly geeking out over lately?
  • What’s your idea of a perfect Saturday afternoon? What would you be doing?
  • If you could magically acquire any skill related to a hobby, what would it be?
  • Let’s swap stories. What’s the most memorable experience you’ve had while pursuing one of your hobbies?

These questions are designed to be light-hearted and encourage a casual conversation about your partner’s hobbies and interests, creating an inviting atmosphere for sharing and getting to know each other better.

READ MORE: Long Distance Relationship Conversation Ideas: Connecting Deeper for New Couples

4- Family

As much as it’s essential to know about your SO (significant other) it’s also essential to understand their relationship with their family. 

Yes, it can tell you what kind of person you’re dealing with in most cases. 

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Types of questions to ask about family

  • Who are your favorite siblings?
  • What’s your favorite memory about your family?
  • What bothers you about having a brother/sister?
  • How did you enjoy with your siblings when you were younger?
  • What are your brother/sister’s interests?
  • Did your brother/sister have a funny situation with you when you were kids?
  • Tell me a chunk about your circle of relatives. Do you have any siblings or a loopy family?
  • Got any funny or embarrassing family memories you are inclined to percentage?
  • Do you have any favorite circle of relatives’ traditions or goofy inside jokes that you love?
  • Who’s the most adventurous member of your circle of relatives, and what’s the wildest thing they have accomplished?
  • Are you close to your parents? Do you talk to them about everything, or is there a ‘no-go’ zone?
  • What’s your go-to comfort food from your family’s kitchen?
  • Any plans for future circle of relatives gatherings or vacations that you’re enthusiastic about?
  • Has your family ever played matchmaker or given you relationship advice you remember?
  • What’s the quirkiest aspect you’ve inherited out of your own family, be it a trait or a souvenir?
  • What’s the quirkiest thing you’ve inherited from your family, be it a trait or a keepsake?
  • Do you suspect our families would get along if they ever met? Why or why not?

These questions can help you both understand each other’s family backgrounds, values, and experiences, which are important aspects of each person’s identity.

Remember to keep this conversation light since it can be sensitive for some people.

5- Friends

You are the top 5 people you spend time with. And that couldn’t be further from the truth. 

Knowing who are the people your partner hanging out with will tell you what kind of person they are. 

This image illustrate group of friends which is used part of a game of asking questions about friends
  • How did you meet your current best friend/friends?
  • How long have you been knowing each other?
  • How do you enjoy your time with your friends?
  • Do you prefer to party with your friends or to go somewhere and explore?
  • Do you prefer having the opposite sex as your best friend? And why?
  • Would you like to travel with your friends around the world?
  • Do you tell your friends everything? And why?
  • What could destroy your relationship with your friends?

6- Food 

My favorite topic. 

If you love trying out new food or different cousins like I do, it’ll be so much fun to share that with your partner. 

  • What was the last new dish you tried?
  • Are you into different cuisines?
  • What’s your favorite cuisine?
  • Do you like spice and flavored dishes or basic dishes?
  • Would you go for pizza or deep-fried pizza?
  • Are you into sushi? What kind? 
  • What’s your favorite dish and why?
  • Did you ever hate any dish? Why?
  • What’s your favorite snack from when you were a kid?
  • What’s your go-to dish if you have no time?
  • Do you like dine-in or takeaway?
  • Do you prefer to cook your favorite dish or try it in a restaurant? 

If you’re from a different culture, I suggest gathering a collection of pictures and showing it to your partner and asking if they would try any of it. 

This image feature sushi to illustrate the theme topic of food part of long distance relationship question games

7- Weird things they heard about

Who has never experienced or heard something weird? It’s fun to share such stories with your partner. 

It goes as simple as What was the one weird thing you heard about till today? 

Or if you want to go deeper, here are a few questions to ask:

  • Do you believe in conspiracy theories?
  • What are the craziest conspiracy theories you ever heard?
  • What is the weirdest thing you have ever experienced?
  • What’s the strangest thing you have ever seen?
  • Do you or any of your friends have seen something bizarre?
  • Have you ever had a dream that was so bizarre or surreal that it stuck with you? Care to share it?
  • Did you ever find something strange or unexpected in an old attic, basement, or storage space?
  • Have you experienced a weird coincidence that made you question the nature of fate or destiny?
  • What’s a unique or offbeat place you’ve ever been to, and what made it memorable?
  • Share a funny or strange story from your childhood that your family still talks about.
this image feature a woman in shock after hearing weird topic which is used for fun question games

8- Interests

It’s similar to a hobbies’ topic, but this one is for you if you want to dig deep into your partner’s interests:

  • Have you tried anything lately and are interested in doing it again? 
  • What do you like to do on a daily basis for fun?
  • Is there anything you would like to experience?
  • What’s your go-to theme for having fun?
  • What’s the latest book, movie, or TV series you’ve been obsessed with, and why do you love it?
  • If we could spend a day together pursuing a shared interest, what would you choose for us to do?
  • Tell me about a memorable adventure or experience related to one of your interests.

9- Life and religious beliefs 

It’s important to know this in an early relationship in case you have a different religious view, or you don’t practice at all.  

If you’re into religion and would like to know about your partner’s beliefs, feel free to ask them about it. 

Just notice that not everyone is comfortable talking about this, so only ask with good intentions and see if your partner is okay with it.

  • What are your beliefs?
  • Do you follow any religion? Why not?
  • If you don’t follow any religion, what made you stay off?
  • Were you forced to practice your religion?
  • What are your thoughts about today’s world?
  • Do you believe in facts?
  • Do you mind being with someone who is an atheist?

For atheists

  • What made you turn into an atheist? 
  • What kind of books have you read about this topic?
  • Since when have you been an atheist?
  • What kind of religion did you practice before being an atheist?
  • What’s your view on today’s world?
  • Do you mind being with someone who practices religion?

10- Lifestyle

Another fun question game to ask your long-distance partner is about their lifestyle. When you’re away, it’s hard to know what their lifestyle looks like. 

Also, it helps later on when you finally get together what to expect. 

this image feature a book a long with some decoration to illustrate lifestyle of someone as you get to know them for part of question games
  • How do you commonly start your day? Any morning rituals or behavior?
  • What’s your move-to way to unwind and loosen up after a protracted day?
  • How do you commonly start your day? Any morning rituals or behavior?
  • What’s your move-to way to unwind and loosen up after a protracted day?
  • Do you have any favorite local spots or hangout places that you like?
  • What’s your technique for staying energetic and maintaining a wholesome lifestyle?
  • How do you stabilize work, non-public time, and social commitments?
  • What’s your selected mode of transportation, and do you enjoy visiting or exploring new places?
  • Are there any specific dietary preferences or food choices that are important to you?
  • Do you have any personal goals or routines that you’re currently working on or trying to establish?
  • How do you handle stress or challenging situations in your day-to-day life?
  • What’s your concept of a great weekend or a relaxing Sunday?

11- Never Have I Ever  

Moving on to the fun part. 

Never have i ever question games board

This is a fun Long-distance relationship question game for new LDR couples, not only will it break your boredom and stop you from running out of things to talk about but it’ll also deepen your relationship. 

Especially in those early days. 

Here are fun Never Have I Ever questions:

  • Never have I ever binge-watched an entire TV series in one weekend. Have you?
  • Never have I ever tried a food so spicy that I regretted it immediately. How about you?
  • Never have I ever accidentally sent a text to the wrong person. Share your embarrassing story!
  • Never have I ever danced like no one was watching, even when someone was definitely watching. Tell me about your dance floor escapade!
  • Never have I ever stayed up all night talking to someone I cared about. Remember any memorable late-night conversations?
  • Never have I ever had a pet. Have you, and if so, what kind?
  • Never have I ever gone on a spontaneous road trip without a plan. Share the details of your most spontaneous adventure.
  • Never have I ever tried a new hobby or activity on a whim. What’s something you decided to pick up out of the blue?
  • Never have I ever laughed so hard I couldn’t stop. Tell me about a time when you had a fit of uncontrollable laughter.
  • Never have I ever made a bucket list. If you have, what’s one thing you really want to check off?

You can take turns to ask each other the same questions, and for even deeper experience you can do it via video call. 

12- Truth or dare

We all played truth or dare at some point in our life, just because you’re in long distance, it doesn’t mean you can’t.

You can do this through simple texts or for more fun I recommend doing it over a video call, this way you’ll be both focused, and it’ll be more spontaneous.

Truth and dare ideas 

Truth Questions:

  1. What’s one thing you’ve never told me because you were too embarrassed?
  2. Share a secret talent or skill you have that I don’t know about.
  3. Describe your most memorable dream, including all the strange details.
  4. Have you ever had a crush on someone while we’ve been together? Who was it?
  5. What’s your guilty pleasure song, and can you sing a snippet for me?
  6. If you could change one thing about our relationship, what would it be, and why?
  7. What’s the most adventurous thing you’ve ever wanted to try but haven’t?
  8. Tell me about a memorable childhood prank you pulled or fell victim to.
  9. Share a funny or embarrassing story from your past that you haven’t told me yet.
  10. What’s your idea of a perfect date night, even if it’s just in our imaginations?

Dare Ideas:

  1. Send me a voice message singing a silly song or jingle of your choice.
  2. Create a short, funny video clip of yourself reenacting a famous movie scene.
  3. Write a short poem or love note and send it to me as a surprise.
  4. Wear something quirky or funny during our next video call and explain why you chose it.
  5. Find a random fact or piece of trivia and teach it to me in a creative way.
  6. Share a photo of your current surroundings, and make it as interesting or artistic as you can.
  7. Create a bucket list of three things you want to do together when we meet in person.
  8. Record a video message sharing one thing you admire or appreciate about me.
  9. Draw a doodle or artwork that represents something meaningful to us.
  10. Share a funny or embarrassing childhood photo of yourself and tell the story behind it

Feel free to mix and match truth and dare ideas. 

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13- Would you rather?

Another fun question game to try in your LDR is Would You Rather, you can do it anytime you want and it never gets old. 

Again, I recommend you do it over a video call, but you can also do it randomly whenever you’re texting to keep your conversations going. 

  • Would you rather have the ability to teleport or be able to read minds?
  • Would you rather live in a world with endless summer or a world with endless winter?
  • Would you rather travel back in time to meet your ancestors, or forward in time to meet your descendants?
  • Would you rather have the power of invisibility or the ability to fly?
  • Would you rather always have to speak in rhyme, or have to sing everything you say?
  • Would you rather spend a day exploring a bustling city or a quiet countryside?
  • Would you rather have the ability to speak and understand all languages, or be a master of every musical instrument?
  • Would you rather be able to communicate with animals or speak every human language fluently?
  • Would you rather spend a year traveling to different countries or a year living in your dream home with everything you desire?
  • Would you rather have the power to heal any illness or end all conflicts and wars in the world?
  • Would you rather have the ability to time travel but not control where you end up, or have the ability to teleport but only to places you’ve been before?
  • Would you rather have the talent to become a famous actor or a world-renowned author?
  • Would you rather meet your favorite historical figure or your favorite fictional character?
  • Would you rather live in a treehouse in the forest or a houseboat on a tranquil lake?
  • Would you rather be a renowned chef or a successful musician?
  • Would you rather be a professional athlete in your favorite sport or a famous actor in your favorite movie genre?
  • Would you rather have the power to instantly learn any new skill, or have the ability to remember everything you’ve ever read or seen?
  • Would you rather have a pet dragon or a pet unicorn?
  • Would you rather have the ability to control the weather or have the power to heal physical injuries instantly?
  • Would you rather live in a world where magic is real but kept secret from the public, or in a world where advanced technology has made life extremely convenient but less personal?
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14 – This or that?

Another fun twist on Would you rather is this or that? 

It has the same concept, except this one is in the same category. 


  • Pizza or Sushi?
  • Chocolate or Vanilla?
  • Coffee or Tea?
  • Burger or Tacos?
  • Pasta or Rice?


  • Beach vacation or Mountain retreat?
  • Road trip or Cruise?
  • Explore a new city or Relax in a cozy cabin?
  • Travel solo or travel with a group of friends?
  • Visit historical sites or explore natural wonders?


  • Movie night or Live concert?
  • Board games or Video games?
  • Comedy show or Thriller movie?
  • Reading a book or Watching a TV series?
  • Karaoke night or Dancing at a club?


  • Sunrise or Sunset?
  • Forest hike or Beach walk?
  • Camping in a tent or Staying in a cozy cabin?
  • Stargazing or Watching a sunrise by the sea?
  • Canoeing on a calm lake or Rafting down a river?

15- Ask what-if questions about love

In an early long-distance relationship, it’s important to know your partner’s views and beliefs about love. But instead of doing it bluntly, you can do it in this fun game. 

What if questions? 

  • What if we had to plan the cheesiest, most cliché romantic date ever, what would it include?
  • What if we were characters in a rom-com, what would be our funny meet-cute moment?
  • What if we could go on a spontaneous adventure right now, where would we go and what would we do?
  • What if we had to write a goofy love song together, what would the chorus be like?
  • What if we were stuck in a love-themed escape room, how would we tackle the challenges together?
  • What if we could magically switch personalities for a day, what’s one thing you’d want to experience as me?
  • What if we were in a reality TV show about couples, what would our quirky catchphrase be?
  • What if we had to survive a zombie apocalypse together, how would we protect each other?
  • What if we had to choose a funny couple costume for Halloween, what would we dress up as?
  • What if we could predict our future together with a crystal ball, what’s one funny prediction you’d hope for?

These are fun to ask from time to time, or when you have an online date, you can use them as well. 

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16- Situational quizzes (Scenario)

This used to be my favorite type of fun game to play in a long-distance relationship. Basically, it is what it sounds like.

You create a scenario and based on this scenario, your partner will explain what they will do. 

Here are some scenarios to try:

  1. Vacation Destination: If we could go anywhere on vacation right now, where would you choose: a tropical beach, a bustling city, or a peaceful mountain retreat?
  2. Dream Date Night: You have one night to plan a dream date for us. What would it entail: a romantic candlelit dinner, an outdoor adventure, or a cozy movie night at home?
  3. Superpower Selection: If you could have one superpower, which would you pick: invisibility, time travel, or mind reading?
  4. Survival Skills: Imagine we’re on a deserted island. What’s the first thing you’d do to ensure our survival: build shelter, find food, or signal for help?
  5. Movie Marathon: We’re having a movie marathon. Which genre do you choose: action-packed blockbusters, heartwarming rom-coms, or mind-bending sci-fi films?
  6. Celebrity Encounter: You bump into a celebrity on the street. What’s your reaction: ask for a selfie, strike up a casual conversation, or play it cool and keep walking?
  7. Travel Decision: You won a free trip, but you have to leave right now. Where would you choose to go without any prior planning?
  8. Unexpected Challenge: You find a mysterious locked box in the attic. What’s your first move: try to open it, call for backup, or leave it alone?
  9. Time Machine: If you could time travel to any historical period for a day, where and when would you go?
  10. Cooking Contest: We’re in a cooking contest, and you have to prepare a dish with random ingredients from the pantry. What do you whip up, and what’s your secret ingredient?

17- Fill in the blank 

For the last one, it can be done any time you’re texting. 

Just choose your favorite and send it as it is.

Travel: “If I could visit any country in the world, I would choose ___ because __.

Food: “My favorite comfort food is ___, and it always makes me feel ___.

Dreams and Goals: “In the next five years, I hope to achieve ___, and I’m excited about ___.

Books and Movies: The last book I read that really impacted me was ___, and it taught me ____.

Friendship: “My best friend and I first met ___, and we’ve been through ___ together.

Happiness: “One small thing that never fails to brighten my day is ___ because ___.

Nature: “My favorite outdoor activity is ___, and I love it because ___.


There are lots of ways to enjoy being in a long-distance relationship, these Long distance relationship question games will be fun to add to your daily communication with your partner. 

These can also be used if you have been in LDR for a long time, and you want to spice things up. 

Share below which one you want to try and share your ideas down below. 


Hi, I'm Amira, and I've been in a long-distance relationship for four years. I know how tough and fun it can be to love someone far away. I made this blog to share what I've learned and help new long-distance couples. Let's make being far from each other feel a little easier.